Families often follow a patriarchal structure headed by the eldest male ( Karta ), though his wife frequently manages domestic and religious affairs.

In suburban homes, the afternoon belongs to the homemakers and elders. This is when the "daily life stories" are traded over the balcony or during the cleaning of lentils.

In a world that is increasingly individualistic, the remains a fortress. It is loud, it is nosy, it is judgmental, and it never lets you quit. When you fall, nine hands pull you up. When you rise, ten voices claim credit.